You sit down to do the thing. The house is quiet. The laptop is open. And nothing happens. You cannot start.
Then a friend comes over. They sit on the sofa with their own laptop, doing their own work. And suddenly you can focus. The task that felt impossible ten minutes ago now flows.
That is body doubling. And it is one of the most effective, least talked about strategies for ADHD.
What is body doubling?
Body doubling is simply having another person present while you work. They do not need to help you. They do not need to talk to you. They just need to be there.
It works because the presence of another person provides gentle external accountability. Your brain registers that someone else is working, and it mirrors that state. It is not magic. It is how ADHD brains respond to their environment.
How to use it
- In person. Work alongside a friend, colleague, or family member. A coffee shop works too, the ambient presence of others can have the same effect.
- Online. Free or low-cost platforms let you join a video call and work silently alongside others. Focusmate is my favourite. Toolkit members can also join my free group body doubling sessions on Zoom.
- On a call. Some of my clients arrange “co-working calls” with friends. Camera on, microphone off, just quietly getting on with things together.
When to use it
Body doubling is especially useful for tasks you have been avoiding. The boring admin. The tax return. The email you have been drafting in your head for three days. If you cannot start something on your own, try doing it with someone else nearby.
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About Linda Fox
Linda Fox is an ICF-ACC credentialled Adult ADHD Life & Business Coach (CALC) with 26+ years of experience and lived experience of ADHD herself. She works with entrepreneurs, solicitors, and business owners, helping them build practical strategies that fit how their brain actually works. UK-based, coaching worldwide via Zoom.
