Every spring, the same advice arrives. Clear out a whole room. Donate three bags of clothes. Organise your loft. Spend the weekend decluttering. If that kind of advice has never worked for you, you are in good company. For ADHD and AuDHD brains, the classic declutter is almost perfectly designed to go wrong. It requires [...]

January gets all the attention. But for a lot of people, and especially those with ADHD or AuDHD, January is one of the hardest months of the year. The days are short. The post-Christmas exhaustion is real. And the cultural pressure to reinvent yourself lands at exactly the moment your brain has the least to [...]

You need routine to feel safe, but you also get bored of routine within a week. You crave social connection, but after an hour of it you are completely drained. You want to plan, but the plan keeps changing because your brain keeps changing its mind. If this sounds like you, you might have AuDHD, [...]

There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes from spending all winter trying to keep up. Not just physical tiredness, though that is real too. It is the mental weight of pushing through when your brain is signalling, clearly and repeatedly, that it needs a break. For many adults with ADHD or AuDHD, that [...]