Daily Life

You are nearly a quarter of the way through the year. That sentence can land in very different ways depending on how the last three months have felt. If January and February were harder than expected, or messier than planned, this review might feel like the last thing you want to do. But this is [...]

Every spring, the same advice arrives. Clear out a whole room. Donate three bags of clothes. Organise your loft. Spend the weekend decluttering. If that kind of advice has never worked for you, you are in good company. For ADHD and AuDHD brains, the classic declutter is almost perfectly designed to go wrong. It requires [...]

You need routine to feel safe, but you also get bored of routine within a week. You crave social connection, but after an hour of it you are completely drained. You want to plan, but the plan keeps changing because your brain keeps changing its mind. If this sounds like you, you might have AuDHD, [...]

There is a particular kind of exhaustion that comes from spending all winter trying to keep up. Not just physical tiredness, though that is real too. It is the mental weight of pushing through when your brain is signalling, clearly and repeatedly, that it needs a break. For many adults with ADHD or AuDHD, that [...]